Getting closer again
A couple has strength when they stand in the stream of life from both sides — from one partner’s family and from the other’s. If these streams are missing, they seek strength in each other, but it is a strength that is quickly exhausted.
(Hellinger, 1998, Love’s Hidden Symmetry, p. 218)
Do you find yourselves stuck in the same arguments, again and again?
Do the long silences sometimes feel even more painful than the fights themselves? , Or maybe you simply feel distant — even when you're in the same room?
That’s completely natural!
Every relationship has its ups and downs.
But sometimes, the routine, the pain,
and the challenges can push us too far apart.
Couples therapy is an invitation to come back—to each other, to true connection, and to the love you both deserve.
Ask yourself
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When was the last time I felt like I was really being seen in this relationship?
How would I like to feel here in a year?
Am I willing to look at myself, not just my partner, to change the relationship?
What happens to a relationship without family support?
Living without family backing is more than just having a parent who is absent or uninvolved. It’s a deep sense of having no one to lean on - in joy or in crisis. A burning sense of not belonging, of having no roots to hold onto, to rest against, or to find comfort in.
In a Process-Oriented Couple Constellation, we meet your relationship as a living entity.
We explore how the absence of family support shakes it, challenges it,
and sometimes strengthens it.
We reveal the high costs this reality demands from each of you and from the relationship itself.
We differentiate between our capacity to “hold” and our capacity to “receive,”
and we move toward radical acceptance: “acknowledging what is.”
From there, we shift toward strategies that position you within the system
in ways that foster connection, belonging, and security.
You love each other — but it’s burning you out.
The love is there.
So are the pressure and the exhaustion.
And deep down, you know that if nothing changes, the love could fade away.
The same fights keep playing on repeat:
Money. Parenting. In-laws.
One wrong word, and it explodes.
Then come the heavy silences - heavier than any argument.
And the hardest part?
Even when you’re together, you feel alone.
Without a supportive family to lean on, everything falls on the two of you.
No one to take the kids for the weekend so you can breathe.
No one to say, “I’ve got you - rest.”
No safety net to catch you when you fall.
So you fall - on each other.
Process-Oriented Couple Constellation is a deep, systemic approach I developed - blending Family Constellation work, Differentiation & Worthiness - where both of you are guided and represented together in the constellation field.
We’ll stand in that space together and see what your eyes can’t see:
the emotional and family roots quietly shaping your reactions and patterns.
We’ll untangle the ties of the past that keep pulling you back, and strengthen your sense of safety and belonging - so you can be truly close without losing yourselves.
Click here to send me a WhatsApp message - because your love is worth saving.
What actually happens?
Testimonials
R & M
Sivan is an amazing and thorough therapist, Every meeting is a leap forward in progress and growth.
And we are happy that we got there!
Highly recommended.
A. & D., Online couples therapy
Sivan changed the way we
Talking, touching, understanding.
"She helped us feel each other again.
S. & R., ages 32 and 35.
Dear Sivan, you are a gift we received at the beginning of our journey. May it accompany us all our lives. We are confident and hope to return under good circumstances, to preserve and add tools to the box. The path to you was directed from above.
And we are grateful for you and for everything that caring for you has given us!
You changed our lives in every way.
Thank you very much.
How Does It Work?
During therapy, we will explore the roots of your difficulties together, from your daily routine to patterns passed down from your families. We will combine conversation, couple exercises, and experiential tools to ensure that you can experience the change, not just talk about it.
